Satanic Fundy Nutjobs

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Modesty, Body Policing and Rape Culture: Connecting the Dots

The modesty doctrine revolves around the assumption that a man has a right to sex with every woman he finds attractive. In Christian fundamentalism, he only has a right to sex with his wife. That’s why certain women get singled out as threats, despite trying their hardest to be “modest.” It doesn’t matter what they wear; if men find them attractive and can’t marry them, they must be punished.

…What she wants or doesn’t want is either erased or subordinated to what he wants or can’t have. The relationship is between the man, her body, and the law (monogamy). Similarly, entire facets of male sexuality are written out. Men are not allowed to see themselves as objects of desire… , The corollary to accepting that sex isn’t about having a right of use for another person’s body means enjoying the experience of having a woman express genuine interest in you. In the fundamentalist model of sex, men are aggressors and women are reluctant recipients. Relinquishing the right to sex with a woman and replacing it with mutual consent means finally experiencing sexual interest that isn’t forced. It threatens patriarchal masculinity, however, because having that experience (being wanted) means letting go of superiority and admitting to having the same experience women do.

Women’s Equality and Empowerment

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How Christian Purity Culture Enabled My Step Dad to Sexually Abuse Me

If someone does not have the right to say no and exists only to serve why is it a surprise what they are taken advantage of by their “masters?” A person who needs that much control over others cannot control themselves and will act out their insecurity as aggression, oppression and abuse. Period.

Jesus. These people are satanic animals.