Why the Majority of White Women Voted for Trump

Misogyny often involves distinguishing between “good” and “bad” women, by the lights of their conformity to patriarchal norms and values. So, at the highest level of generality, it’s not surprising that women who aspire to be “good” have social incentives to distance themselves from a woman deemed “bad,” as Clinton often was, and to publicly participate when she was ostracized and punished for supposed moral crimes and misdemeanors.

…Researchers had male and female participants rate a newly appointed female vice president, described in a personnel file, on measures of hostility, antisocial traits, and overall likability. Both male and female participants were prone to punish her, socially, by inferring norm violations—for example, manipulativeness, coldness, aggression—unless given specific information about her feminine virtues and good behavior.

…Women are supposed to give everyone around them personal care and attention, or else they risk seeming nasty, mean, unfair, and callous. But, of course, that’s an impossible mandate when you’re running for president. And, in general, the larger and more diverse a woman’s audience or constituency, the more she will tend to be perceived as cold, distant, “out of touch,” negligent, careless, and selfish, in view of these norms of feminine attentiveness. No such listening skills need be demonstrated by her male counterparts, however. Indeed, when it came to Trump, they could hardly have been less so.

…Now consider prejudice against women in certain social positions—those aspiring to masculine-coded power positions, as in politics. Part of what this may involve is moral prejudgment in line with widely disavowed, but not yet defunct, gendered social mores. Someone like Hillary Clinton is frequently cast in the moral role of usurper. And unsurprisingly so (which is of course not to say justifiably); she threatens to take men’s historical place or steal their thunder. If she wins, the game is rigged. She could not have won it fairly. And her behavior and she herself seems to be careless, shady, and crooked (so the thought continues).

Women in positions of unprecedented political power, or right on its cusp, are also prone to be perceived as rule-breakers generally. They are not to be trusted to stay in line, or respect law and order. These perceptions are understandable, because they’re not baseless so much as defunct: these women are breaking the rules of an unjust patriarchal system that is still in the process of being dismantled. Someone like Clinton was breaking rank; she was out of order relative to nominally passé, but entrenched, social hierarchies wherein only men could aspire to highest political office. And women were expected to defer to and support, not compete with, them. Her defection from this role may hence seem like treason or betrayal—and reacted to in ways both bewildered and bewildering, both threatened and threatening.

In view of this, a woman who has done nothing wrong in moral and social reality (i.e., relative to fair and egalitarian standards) may be subject to moral suspicion and consternation for violating edicts of the patriarchal rulebook. And her behavior may then be cast as dangerous, suspicious, risky, or deceptive, in line with moral verdicts already rendered. The latter judgments drive the former, rather than the reverse. It just seems like she’s up to something; what being a matter for discovery—or invention.

…Consider then FBI director James Comey’s remark that Clinton was “extremely careless” in her handling of her emails, and that she exposed the American people to serious risks from “hostile actors” while traveling overseas. Both the description itself and its subsequent uptake were clearly inflated. The idea that Clinton was so careless as compared to other politicians seems driven by a tacit moral judgment, a prior conviction that she was guilty, rather than an unbiased assessment of the evidence.

…Donald Trump’s vice president, Mike Pence, also voted for the war in Iraq. But according to Trump, Pence was entitled to make such mistakes “every once in a while.” “She’s not?” CBS’s Lesley Stahl asked Trump, of Clinton. “No. She’s not,” was Trump’s full answer. “Got it,” Stahl blinked, and proceeded with the interview.

… more inclined to see women in positions of authority as posers and imposters compared with their male counterparts.

Suppose that this is true: that so-called imposter syndrome is sometimes in the eye of the beholder of female as compared with male professors, in their positions as moral and intellectual authority figures. This hypothesis could help to explain why Bernie Sanders was preferred by many millennials to Hillary Clinton by such a large margin, in no small part due to differential perceptions of their integrity, sincerity, and authenticity, and seemingly in excess of the political and moral differences between the two of them—especially after it was clear that the insinuations about Clinton’s dishonesty and untrustworthiness came to essentially nothing (Abramson 2016).

Why the Majority of White Women Voted for Trump | Alternet

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Bill Clinton should have resigned

Bill Clinton should have resigned – Vox

Paid the price for what? Adultery between two consenting adults? Come back when you actually understand the difference rape and offending your puritan, show-boating sensibilities. Until then, do not claim to standing up for women who actually face sexual harassment or have to deal with predators because you belittle their trauma with your showboating, anti-women nonsense.

Forcing Franken Out, Dems Fail and Republicans Laugh

[Although] he requested an ethics investigation, these holier-than-thou people were on a witch hunt to prove that “liberals set a better standard than conservatives”. …A variety of comments ranging from “he admitted it and apologized” to “with so many women accusing him, he has to be guilty”. …Rather than let due process continue, this onslaught was followed up by a number of Franken’s fellow Senators requesting that he step down. These were mostly women (and some men) who should have known better. They should have stated their disappointment or even disgust, but supported an ethics investigation. Instead, they simply attacked.

…. In this knee-jerk, mob mentality response, the liberals showed that they have no idea what they are doing and lack even the most basic concept of critical thinking. …[Republicans] know that Democrats will gladly “eat-their-own” in their eternal purity test.

…Instead of stepping back and looking at this logically, they are wrapped up in a frenzy of what could be considered to be vitriol hate and vengeance. They sound like people that have “finally” gotten their opportunity to lash back and in doing so, they are no different than the men that have disbelieved the voices of women throughout the years.

…What the attackers don’t realize and didn’t take into consideration is that “truth” is what we should be seeking, not vindictive vengeance. This was a golden moment when liberals could have followed the process through and by having an ethics investigation of our own, we could then turn around and require the same of the conservatives. Both public opinion and the media could have achieved something that hasn’t been done and that was to ultimately require an ethics investigation of Trump for his sexual assault accusations.

In their foolish, mob mentality responses, the Democrats not only lost the leverage of this requirement, but systematically ate-their-own.

Forcing Franken Out, Dems Fail and Republicans Laugh

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Matt Lauer and the emails: sexual harassers conjured a fake Hillary scandal

In the wake of Lauer’s firing, a public discussion has erupted about previous accusations against him for sexist behavior, such as his public shaming of Anne Hathaway after a predatory photographer took an upskirt photo of her, or when Katie Couric complained that he “pinches me on the ass a lot.”

…[Lauer] was one of the most prominent proponents of the notion that it was a major scandal that Clinton had used her private email account to do official work as secretary of state, even though Colin Powell had done the same thing without controversy and multiple, thorough and seemingly endless examinations of her email history revealed nothing scandalous or even mildly interesting.

…When one looks down the lengthening list of prominent male journalists who have been credibly accused of sexual harassment, one thing that sticks out is that they were all obsessed with those godforsaken emails. Charlie Rose, Glenn Thrush, Mark Halperin, Bill O’Reilly: Besides being apparent sleazeballs, they were all big fans of the idea that the thousands of Democratic emails, some released by Clinton herself and some stolen by presumed Russian agents and leaked on WikiLeaks, would somehow turn into an earth-shattering scandal.

…Some grousing about Bernie Sanders dragging out the primary, but no evidence of illegal or unethical behavior. It was a big nothing-burger, but the relentless media drumbeat about “emails” meant that the American public was convinced there was a scandal — even as many were entirely unaware of the many corruption scandals surrounding Trump.

…At its heart, the whole story — which often verged on conspiracy theory — was rooted in misogynist myths about the inherently deceitful nature of women.

…This certainty that Clinton was somehow or other doing something nefarious with her emails was rooted in these ancient fears. That was why the story would never go away, no matter how many times it turned out that there was nothing interesting in her goddamn emails.

Matt Lauer and the emails: How accused harassers conjured a fake Hillary scandal – Salon.com

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How Male Reporters Shaped The Coverage Of The 2016 Election

When Vox News published an exclusive report detailing allegations suggesting that Thrush behaved inappropriately towards female colleagues, there was a resounding lack of surprise from many female journalists. A man who had spent the 2016 election cycle demeaning an extremely qualified female candidate in a way we can all relate to treated the women he worked with terribly?

Shocking.

…Lauer, you might remember, oversaw a live prime-time forum with Trump and Clinton in 2016 .

…He revealed his own personal biases clearly steeped in misogyny. He spent approximately one-third of his allotted time with Clinton questioning her use of a private email server — meaning he then had to rush through topics of actual importance, such as foreign policy and terrorism questions.

He continued to interrupt her to get her to “move along,” going so far as to ask her to explain her plan to defeat the Islamic State as “briefly” as she could.

And then he let many of Trump’s obviously false assertions go unchallenged. When the then-candidate claimed he had always been against the war in Iraq (a lie that Clinton had brought up earlier in the forum) Lauer let the falsehood stand.

…while he did clearly give Trump easier questioning, what is being missed is the fact that he did not treat Clinton like a serious candidate for president.

He treated her like allegations suggest he treats other women in his life. Poorly, with sexist tones clouding his professional behavior.

How Misogynistic Male Reporters Shaped The Coverage Of The 2016 Election

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The Inconvenience of Being a Woman Veteran – The Atlantic

The military doesn’t just urge women, it requires them—especially if they want to succeed—to view themselves on the same playing field as their male counterparts. They are also expected to behave and perform in traditionally masculine ways—demonstrating strength, displaying confidence in their abilities, expecting to be judged on their merits and performance, and taking on levels of authority and responsibility that few women get to experience. The uniform and grooming standards work to downplay their physical female characteristics. Additionally, the expectation—explicit or implicit—is that they also downplay other attributes that are traditionally considered feminine, such as open displays of emotion. That’s not to say that gender isn’t going to be noticed or that others aren’t going to make it an issue—they will. But highlighting female characteristics is undesirable. As General Lori J. Robinson, the U.S. military’s first female combatant commander, put it: “I’m a general, a commander, an airman. And I happen to be a woman.”

…What civilians do not realize, what women veterans often do not even realize, is that they might appear to be like other women, but they aren’t operating on the expectations traditionally applied to women. Behaving at odds with these traditional expectations is often a significant drawback in the ability of women veterans to fit-in in the workplace, in the dating world, in the female civilian community, in society in general. And directly challenging these expectations can often lead to conflict.

…This kind of exchange, where a woman’s connection to the military is assumed to be earned by another, most likely male, individual can be insulting and disheartening to a woman who has served.

The Inconvenience of Being a Woman Veteran – The Atlantic

An interesting and important point of view. I would imagine though, that perhaps this phenomena of women adopting “male” norms is not confined to the military.

5 Things Society Oddly Enough Will Not Take Women’s Word For

#5 – Women Want To Be Believed About Medical Problems

People (men and women) are conditioned to think of women as worrywarts and hypochondriacs, making a big deal about every little cough, so that women have to complain twice as much about something to be taken half as seriously. 

…Let me be clear: When I say “Believe women,” I don’t mean let them override medical expertise and self-diagnose their condition from WebMD. I mean believe their reported symptoms. If they say “unbearable pain,” take it as “unbearable pain” instead of trying to translate it from “woman-ese” into “mild pain I am making a big deal about.”

#4 Women Want To Be Believed About Harassment and Threats

…So a lot of people who genuinely believe they too “get harassed all the time” are actually imagining that the woman has been experiencing what they’ve previously experienced — name-calling and embarrassment — whereas the woman is looking at death threats, rape threats, “I know where you live,” and “Hey everybody on the internet, here’s where she lives”.

…When we say “Believe women” on harassment, we are not demanding that you take a woman’s side on whatever issue started the harassment — a political statement, lover’s quarrel, whatever. Many, many women would consider it amazing progress to just hear “Yes, the death threats are real” (without a following “but”). That’s all, man. If we can ever get there, we can talk about the rest.

[Peanut gallery wonders if some people – who have the tendency to sound the alarm at, well, everything – might be doing that because after a lifetime of harassment and threats that no one believes them about, the entire world might start to look hostile and threatening. Because not all people might be doing the threatening, but if it seems like no one cares or thinks it is wrong/bad then wouldn’t it start to seem like everyone -the whole world- is culpable for letting it continue??? The peanut gallery digresses….]

# 3 – Women Want To Be Believed About Rape And Sexual Assault

…when a woman first claims she has been raped, we should give her the same credibility as a typical car theft victim.

When someone says their car has been stolen, few people respond, “Alright, I want to believe you, but let’s wait for all the facts first,” or “Let’s hear the car thief’s side of the story.” You usually go, “Oh shit. Are you okay? Do you need a ride?” …If it comes out in the news that someone lied about a car theft, you go, “What a weird twist!” and not, “You can’t trust car theft victims!”

…I just feel like unless you are a cop or a prosecutor or a claims adjuster, it shouldn’t really be our main job to catch the few liars in a vast ocean of genuine victims. Or alternatively, we should be consistent and also grill everyone who claims to have been in a car accident.

#2 – Women Want To Be Believed About Their Specialties

…For most people, it’s probably totally unintentional. We’ve all spent our lives absorbing TV and movies in which women are rarely portrayed as smart, and when they are, there’s always a smarter male character not too far away. It’s easy to slip into that pattern. It should be a simple fix. When someone does this, anyone who notices can point it out, and the explainer …can quickly change course. No conflict needed.

Unfortunately, the person who notices it is usually a woman (being the target and all), which is where we run into a bigger problem …

# 1- Women Want To Be Believed About Not Being Believed As Much As Men Are

…”credibility gap,” wherein every statement a woman makes gets 70 percent (or less) of the credibility of a man making the same statement. A man complains of excruciating pain? It’s probably excruciating. A woman complains of excruciating pain? Well, wait, we need to run that through the hysterical woman filter to find out how much pain she’s REALLY in. Because you know how they get.

…This pushes women to use stronger and stronger language to get their issues on the radar (“complain more,” as the doctor advised my mom [when he didn’t believe her when she said she was in pain and a simple condition that – because he didn’t take her seriously and didn’t test for or treat it – nearly killed her]), which skeptics just use as “proof” that women blow everything out of proportion and you have to mentally dial back everything they say.

The 5 Things Women Want You Won’t Believe They Don’t Have

Al of that seems pretty legit.

Congress has a sexual harassment problem, lawmakers and staffers say

Be extra careful of the male lawmakers who sleep in their offices — they can be trouble. Avoid finding yourself alone with a congressman or senator in elevators, late-night meetings or events where alcohol is flowing. And think twice before speaking out about sexual harassment from a boss — it could cost you your career.

These are a few of the unwritten rules that some female lawmakers, staff and interns say they follow on Capitol Hill, where they say harassment and coercion is pervasive on both sides of the rotunda.
There is also the “creep list” — an informal roster passed along by word-of-mouth, consisting of the male members most notorious for inappropriate behavior, ranging from making sexually suggestive comments or gestures to seeking physical relations with younger employees and interns.
Congress has a sexual harassment problem, lawmakers and staffers say – CNNPolitics

Miss Peru contestants accuse country of not measuring up on gender violence 

Latin American beauty pageants are [criticized] as sexist and patriarchal in their portrayal of women. But the 23 Miss Peru contestants agreed with [a suggestion from] the pageant’s [organizer,] former beauty queen Jessica Newton, to dedicate the event to empowering women in a country with an appalling record for gender violence.

Miss Peru contestants accuse country of not measuring up on gender violence | Global development | The Guardian

Whoa… Nicely done, ladies.