Dear Black People: This HBCU VS PWI Battle Is Fucking Stupid » VSB

Also, while I’m usually not in the business of playing the “This is what Black people should and shouldn’t do” game, I can’t think of any dumber exercise than a group of Black people insulting, downplaying, dismissing, and discounting the college experiences of other Black people because of the university they chose to attend. And, as well as being dumb as fuck, it’s racist. Yes, racist. By reflexively devaluing the merits of HBCUs you are no different from a White person who believes traditionally Black entities are inherently inferior. And by insulting Blacks who chose to attend PWIs, you are no different from the White person who believes that any Black person who chooses to deviate from their idea of what the “universal Black experience” should be is somehow less Black.

That said, I’d be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge that there’s a very real and specifically American context to HBCU grads being defensive. Because it’s the business of America to devalue both the contributions and the value of Black Americans, and this sickness is so pervasive that it has infected many of us (Black Americans) too. So, it’s understandable when an HBCU grad defending this value and these contributions crosses that thin line separating “wagon circling” from active antagonism. But it being understandable doesn’t make it right.

Source: Dear Black People: This HBCU VS PWI Battle Is Fucking Stupid » VSB

hmmmm

Early Behavior Therapy Found to Aid Children With A.D.H.D. – The New York Times

Experts said this approach could possibly change standard medical practice, which favors drugs like Adderall and Ritalin as first-line treatments.

Source: Early Behavior Therapy Found to Aid Children With A.D.H.D. – The New York Times

this sounds less like behavioral therapy for the kids and more like  (this shit should be obvious) training in better parenting for adults. Either way you want to describe it, it sounds more promising than drugging 4 million kids.

Masters of Love – The Atlantic

Partners would make requests for connection, what Gottman calls “bids.” For example, say that the husband is a bird enthusiast and notices a goldfinch fly across the yard. He might say to his wife, “Look at that beautiful bird outside!” He’s not just commenting on the bird here: he’s requesting a response from his wife—a sign of interest or support—hoping they’ll connect, however momentarily, over the bird.

The wife now has a choice. She can respond by either, “turning toward” or “turning away” from her husband. …People who turned toward their partners in the study responded by engaging the bidder, showing interest and support in the bid. Those who didn’t—those who turned away—would not respond or respond minimally and continue doing whatever they were doing, like watching TV or reading the paper. Sometimes they would respond with overt hostility, saying something like, “Stop interrupting me, I’m reading.”

…“There’s a habit of mind that the [successful relationship] masters have,” Gottman explained in an interview, “which is this: they are scanning social environment for things they can appreciate and say thank you for. They are building this culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully. Disasters are scanning the social environment for partners’ mistakes.”

Masters of Love – The Atlantic

seems pretty obvious.

Obama Cuts Abstinence-Only Sex Education | Teen Vogue

There is no evidence these programs ever worked.

It’s official: Obama has cut all abstinence-only education from the 2017 federal budget. In his proposed budget for 2017, Obama has eliminated a $10 million-a-year grant from the Department of Health and Human Services that funds these programs. Over the past 25 years, Congress has spent over $1.5 billion on abstinence-only-until-marriage programs, despite there being no study in a professional peer-reviewed journal that has found this method effective. Again, there is no evidence that supports abstinence-only sex education.

Obama Cuts Abstinence-Only Sex Education | Teen Vogue

nice!

State agency fines Fla. hospital that forced dying woman from ER

57-year-old Barbara Dawson collapsed and died in December after being forcibly removed from the hospital’s emergency room by police officer.

State agency fines Fla. hospital that forced dying woman from ER

Nuh-uh, $45k is not enough for killing a woman. The officer needs to be demoted and suspended without pay during the investigation. The doctors in charge should be charged with negligent homicide and whoever made the call to have her arrested should be jailed for improper use of public resources.

A woman’s life and dignity is worth than a measly $45k.

Oh, and Florida is a such a shit stain on the entire country!

Conservative Acquaintance Annoyingly Not Racist

“It would be so much easier if I could just write him off as a bigot, but as far as I can tell he harbors no resentment or disdain toward people of color. For God’s sake, we argued every issue from states’ rights to income disparity but nope, he didn’t say anything even tacitly racist. Not once.” Hardwick later concluded that her acquaintance’s opposition to most of President Obama’s policies meant he was probably “close enough” to count as a racist.


Conservative Acquaintance Annoyingly Not Racist

heh

In Speech on Ending Racism, Hillary Clinton Offers $125 Billion Plan to Help Poor Minorities

Speaking in Harlem, Hillary Clinton offered job-training and education programs for poor and minority communities, part of an effort to speak directly to African-American voters heading into the South Carolina primary.

In Speech on Ending Racism, Hillary Clinton Offers $125 Billion Plan to Help Poor Minorities – First Draft. Political News, Now. – The New York Times

yes!