and by “us,” as in, “much is this hurting us,” one must infer that you mean men – or any other humans who do not have a uterus.
So to answer your question, none of this hurts, “us.” It hurts women, you know the living, breathing people, who independence and autonomy you categorically deny in your bullshit musings?
Go fuck yourself, David.
Go hide in a dark room with no cell phone and no wifi and never come out.
Do it for all of us who aren’t self-absorbed petulant assholes.